The best way to help your partner is to listen to him and his needs, not what you think he needs.
Although I'm not interested in rekindling a romance, I can't help but be curious about what he's up to from a platonic perspective.
Less than once a month, my cat makes a small mess (hairball, knocking over the trash) in the common area when I’m in class or at work. Instead of occasionally taking a few minutes to clean it up, my roommates will text me about it and leave the mess until I can get home, often hours later.
I understand your situation. I’ve lived through it. When we decide to live with someone, we do not anticipate their partner will also take emotional residence in the home.
I don’t know you. But I want to give you advice.
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